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    • Anonymous
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      September 9, 2001 at 1:46 am
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      #3752

      i’m new here and thought i’d say hello .we live in stockport ,cheshire. we are a family with an autistic boy aged 13. the reason i joined this forum is because we are haveing problem controling his anger. so hopefully i can find some helpfull advice here.

    • Anonymous
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      September 21, 2009 at 7:34 pm
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      #4860

      Hi there – I am new to this world of ASD / Asperger / Autisum !!!! My little girl (9) was provisionally acessed the other day and we were informed that she had Asperger / ADHD !!!! the one thing i did do was Cry – silly eh but I felt as though at least someone was listening to me and I was not going mad! i am trying to find some local support groups and its very hard to find them! does anyone have any ideas. My little girl – sweet and loving as she can be can also be a very nasty, foul mouthed, anger, violent little girl too! I can only presume that this is one side of the condition, and I am finding it very hard to deal with. The added problem that has caused her to be very agressive just lately and this is that her father who had a 50/50 shared care arrangement with me has now decided that he only wants to see them one night a week! so now I have her full time and along with her older sister we are finding it very hard to adjust as she does not like change either! so it has really affected her. I have tried a discipline routinue for naughty behaviour and it the old favourite "the naughty chair" and this does seem to work to a degree but is there any other suggestions that anyone can give me???? Anyway that is a little bit about me and my situation, if you wish to suggest anything I would be grateful.

    • Anonymous
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      September 22, 2009 at 6:15 pm
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      #4861

      Uncertainty and unpredictablity will cause a lot of fustration and anxiety the unknown is scary she has one set of rules with you and another with dad,you must do the same.Are you using schedules and Pictures to show what is expected of her.To dicapline you have to make sure she understands why the punishment is being given,otherwise there will be no point in the punishment.http://autismandaspergersinthefamily.freeforums.org/behaviours-f11.html

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